Rebound Guy And You Didn't Even Know It Because There Was No Sex Involved
When you first met her you knew that she had just gotten out of a long term relationship and you didn't want to be the rebound guy.
However, instead of not seeing her anymore you told her that the two of you should take it slow and allow her time to heal together with you.
After a couple or so weeks you think things are going pretty good between the two of you all things considered and she has started to hint that it might be time to take things to that next and more sexual level.
That's when things turn south and a couple of days later she calls you up or maybe even sends a text or email saying that something is missing between the two of you and its not fair to you to continue the relationship.
Now, you are wondering what happened and where did you go wrong, because even though the two of you were taking it slow, the attraction level was clearly high and it took all the strength you had not to escalate the sexual aspects of your relationships.
In a nutshell, you are and/or were the "Rebound Guy" only instead of having sex with her you gave her something much more valuable you let her release all of her emotional hang-ups about her ex-man onto you.
She dumped you because she was under the impression that she had grown much stronger emotionally and could now confront her ex-man when the truth is she didn't get stronger she only gave you her emotional load.
When she met up with her ex-boyfriend being so much lighter it was much easier for her to accept him back into her life if that is what he wanted as well.
If he didn't want her back she is now in search of some sexual healing and she will get it from someone other than you because you are carrying around all of that emotional baggage that she threw on you and she doesn't want it.
Hopefully, you can learn from this experience that if a woman is in need of a rebound guy your only options are being a rebound guy or staying out of her life entirely until she gets over that need to be with a rebound guy.
Simply being in her life and waiting it out until she is ready for her next real relationship is not an option; at least not now.
Get
on to Dating Services and Make New Friends
By registering on dating services, you will get to know many more
people, probably make friends with them while you are chatting on line
and find someone you would like to date finally. All these could be
done with not much effort on your part. There is no need to attend
gatherings that you find boring or to hob knob around, when you hardly
have the time or the inclination to do so. However, with all this you
would still very much want to have a special friend who in time will
become a permanent feature in your life. Instead of groping in the dark
and wondering how to go about this, get on to dating services, and they
will do all the ground work for you.
Women
and Eye Contact and What It Has To Do With Attracting Women
As you begin growing in your confidence with attracting women and start
making more and more eye contact with women; you may find yourself
noting that many women don't make eye contact with you or look away
very quickly.
How
To Attract Women - In 3 Simple Steps
So how to attract women? This is one of the most frequently asked yet
the most difficult question to answer till date for most men. How can
one attract women and achieve the desired results. What do women really
look for in a man? What makes them attracted towards a certain kind?
Well in order to attract women you need to know what women truly want
out of their man and to satisfy all such wants. Read on to discover
some of the best ways on how to attract women and achieve mind blowing
results.
How
To Choose a Dating Service
There are so many dating sites out there, hundreds if not thousands,
how do you even begin to decide where to register and start your online
dating experience?
Make
a Long Lasting Meaningful Relationship Through Internet Dating
What does Internet dating do for people? This is a system that works
towards bringing people who share a common outlook, together, to form a
lasting meaningful relationship. Through the Internet dating, you could
make new friends, which would lead to romantic relationships and this
could pave the way to finding your life partner too. Most people who
join the Internet dating system are gifted persons who have not had the
chance of meeting the right person to date and communicate with through
the daily channels of their life, like friend's circles, educational
institutes or the work place.
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