5 Steps To Overcome Shyness When Approaching A Woman

Step 1

Your Appearance Is Number One

The first impression is the most important! If you are going out on the town, make sure you dress for the occasion! Don't wear worn up jeans with old running shoes and a immature t-shirt! This will not to impress any women! Dress to impress, but also dress for the occasion.

Step 2

Be Confident

You can't approach a women and expect success when you envision failure. Be confident in yourself! Before you head out, write down ten positive qualities about yourself and ten reasons why a women would want to be with you. Repeat it to yourself every day to help boost your confidence level. Do yourself a favour: Eliminate the negatives qualities!

Step 3

Remove Your Expectations

The main reason men get nervous when approaching women is because they have high expectations! Remember this important advice: REMOVE THEM! When approaching a women, don't focus on how she may react, whether you'll get her number, what her friends may say or how she views you. The best way to remove your shyness is to keep telling yourself that she is just one girl, lady or women (whichever suits her age). She is just one out of the millions out there. So WHO CARES if she says no, there's always another one that will be interested in talking to a hot stud like you!

Step 4

Smile

Smiling releases endorphins which will relax you in a stressful state; Such as approaching a women. Smiling will automatically draw people towards you! When you smile, you feel more confident, more attractive and more relaxed.

Step 5

Go for it!

Don't wait, don't think, don't contemplate, don't resist, don't worry, don't wonder, just go for it by approaching her with a confident and welcoming smile. What's the worst thing that can happen? If she says no, remember WHO CARES! You're still that handsome, confident stud! Brush it off and move on!

* There are exercises and specific techniques that can help prepare for a conversation and remove your shyness from a situation; Such as approaching a women.

* Remember that the best way to overcome shyness is to focus on a the conversation rather than how shy or nervous you are.