Research shows that people who put each other down and are
hostile to each other are more likely to have serious problems .
We tend to feel vulnerable our sence of protection has been
broken, our love has diminished ..
Great relationships don't happen they are created ..
We all have a comfort level and it's usually measured by how
we live and what are interests are. We sometimes tend to get
comfortable Our comfort level gives us a sence of protection.
We tend to lose ourselves and interet on what really matters ..(sharing
our love!) We are settling
We dont want to try new things, if i ain't broke why fix it , that is
what we believe when we are at that comfort zone . We tend to settle
for the "status qou" that would be our existing condition.
For the feeling of being afraid of stepping out
...We cant understand why we are being so reserved with our loved ones,
our we that insecure ?
Our Love has diminished ....
What if ?
Stepping out of the comfort zone you could
have a positive effect in your intimate love romantic passioante
relationship with your partners. That would be what we all want and
desire Yes you can have it all !! It helps us grow
and we learn from these intimate experiences. We discover new
ways to share love and enjoy happiness together which is the
best thing in the world !
Start right now ! Enhance romance ...
Follow a few easy steps and soon you will see things in a new
light ..
***Steps to Re-igniting the flames of
LOVE ****
1. Be spontaneous with your partner it is a
way to help your relationship flourish. Being spontaneous with your
partner can enrich and strenghten your intimate moments ...try
something that you have been wanting to
do..
2. Talk, listen and laugh together become
best freinds ..You will soon start creating a bond
of intimacy .. Be sincere open and honest ..Communicate about
love, sex, family and the relationship..
3. Send Love Notes , Post them everywhere , tell them how
gorgeous, handsome,Beautiful, sexy , how much you love them,
be creative be specific...
4. Compliment each other lovingly in public and in
privacy, show affection for each other ...
5. Show them how much your really care by
being responsive,responsible, caring and loving .. Do the
little things that say i love you and care for you ..
6 . Respect each other whole heartedly, partners who treat
each other with kind and respect know that it is essential for having a
deep connections and loving relationship..
7. Be a good partner regularly get them something you know
they will like and enjoy ..
8. Don't let negative or annoying comments bother you ,
discuss the negativity when you are both calm.
9. Take responsibility for your own growth, appearance and
health..
10. Communicating without fear is absoulutely essential to
building the deepest kind of freindship and intimate partner ..
Love is a Beautiful thing ! Let's share it ..
Marriage is not 50/50 it is 100/100
Please share this with your partner ..
Best wishes
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help you build a more romantic environment ... .
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